what happens when you learn to love someone ad shape your world around and then suddenly that person changes and it al falls apart. Losing love and trying to emerge from it is like cutting out a big chunk of your soul. So to save myself from the heartbreak wish to remain detached nd alone 'cuz that way I would Be accountable to  myselfand save myself from the whole process ! It is extremely painful when your soul is ripped apart and there is big hole which starts throbbing wen see the one u love ! So save yourself from the misery 'cuz you never know, you may not be able to emerge from this excruciating pain and lose yurself completely by drowning in tat ocean of self doubt